I am 62 and no prude. Honest! I am also a grandmother with a part-time job, so I help out my daughter with child care twice a week. I am often sitting in the kitchen with my daughter and 5-year-old grandson when my son-in-law comes home and exchanges a passionate, open-mouthed kiss with my daughter. I think it’s terrible to subject a boy to the sight of his parents’ sexualized kissing. (I don’t want to see it either.) I am determined to say something, but my husband, who shies from conflict, suggested I check with you first. Thoughts?
Let’s talk about modeling — and not the runway variety. I mean the kind where parents show their children, by example, what loving adult behavior looks like. I don’t believe I ever saw my parents exchange more than a purse-lipped peck. Now, add a dollop of gay shame from the ’70s (in my case) and presto! I had a hard time, as a young guy, synthesizing domesticity and sex.
Your grandson may be in a better starting position than I was (or than many of us were) by witnessing his parents’ romantic kissing as an ordinary feature of married life. And since these “open-mouthed” kisses are the worst offense you mention, I think you should let it go.
Because another big advantage your grandson currently enjoys is having a loving grandmother built into his weekly routine. Do your best to safeguard that — which means holding back, when possible, from criticizing the way your daughter and son-in-law run their household. As a parent of adult children, it often pays to be quiet about the ways their choices differ from yours.
Use your words! As hosts, it’s thoughtful to consider our guests’ desires, but there’s no need to cater to them absolutely. (Nor should you put much stock in telepathic messaging or theatrical yawns.) At 10 p.m., say, “Thanks so much for coming! We had a great time. But we have an early morning, so we’ll say ‘good night’ now.” They will thank you, gather their coats and leave. And it won’t be awkward, at all. I promise!
A young relative posted on Facebook, asking for an early-morning ride to the airport from her university. Her mom (in another town) responded: “How much is the shuttle bus?” Her daughter answered: “LOL! But Uber is over .” So, now we know this young woman values her friend’s time and automobiles at less than and thinks that riding on a bus with peasants is laughable. The poster and her family can afford , and the shuttle is comfortable, reliable and safe. (My wife uses it frequently.) Why does she feel entitled to make chauffeurs of her friends?
I know someone who’s not volunteering a lift! And that’s your right, of course. Who knows, though? Maybe another pal is driving right by the airport that morning and won’t mind dropping her off.
But more important, life teaches us lessons over time. It seems as if your young relative has not yet learned how inconvenient and unpopular most requests for airport drop-offs (and pickups) are. After she’s been pressed into duty once or twice, I suspect she’ll figure it out pronto.
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六合现场直播网【柳】【苏】【是】【一】【名】【散】【修】，【实】【力】【一】【般】【刚】【刚】【突】【破】【到】【练】【气】【中】【期】，【平】【时】【靠】【着】【自】【己】【的】【实】【力】【补】【贴】【家】【用】，【今】【天】【因】【为】【庙】【会】，【所】【以】【他】【带】【着】【自】【己】【的】【妹】【妹】【刘】【卿】【准】【备】【来】【吃】【一】【顿】【好】【的】。 【可】【是】【他】【没】【有】【想】【到】【刚】【进】【来】【没】【多】【久】，【就】【见】【到】【在】【剑】【州】【这】【片】【地】【方】【臭】【名】【远】【扬】【的】【孙】【翔】【宇】【也】【走】【了】【进】【来】！ 【这】【个】【时】【候】【要】【是】【直】【接】【走】【反】【而】【可】【能】【更】【显】【眼】，【柳】【苏】【只】【能】【让】【自】【己】【长】【的】【还】【算】【可】【以】【的】
“【快】【快】，【那】【边】【菜】【都】【快】【上】【完】【了】，【这】【几】【个】【砗】【磲】【用】【车】【推】【过】【去】！” 【终】【于】，【秋】【水】【拿】【了】【几】【个】【红】【丝】【绸】【过】【来】，【她】【身】【后】【跟】【来】【了】【御】【厨】【其】【他】【的】【小】【厮】，【浩】【浩】【荡】【荡】【的】【一】【大】【堆】【人】，【巫】【漪】【闪】【到】【一】【边】【让】【出】【了】【个】【空】【隙】，【站】【在】【了】【秋】【水】【身】【后】【偷】【瞄】【着】。 【那】【几】【个】【小】【厮】【推】【来】【了】【几】【个】【转】【轮】【车】，【秋】【水】【瞟】【了】【一】【眼】【乖】【巧】【如】【昨】【的】【巫】【漪】【一】【眼】，【担】【忧】【得】【想】【说】【些】【什】【么】，【但】【此】【时】【时】【间】【仓】
【白】【岑】【说】【完】，【回】【头】【凝】【神】【看】【着】【这】【围】【墙】【内】【的】【阁】【楼】，【若】【有】【若】【无】【的】【世】【俗】【脂】【粉】【香】，【忽】【明】【忽】【暗】【的】【昏】【红】【烛】【光】【摇】【曳】，【一】【切】【都】【透】【着】【迷】【人】【的】【危】【险】。 【白】【岑】【的】【听】【力】【倍】【好】，【许】【是】【她】【作】【为】【兽】【妖】【天】【生】【的】，【里】【面】【的】【丝】【竹】【之】【乐】【层】【层】【叠】【叠】，【还】【时】【不】【时】【掺】【杂】【着】【此】【起】【彼】【伏】【的】【喘】/【息】【声】。 【若】【是】【寻】【常】【女】【子】【听】【来】【定】【是】【耳】【红】【心】【跳】，【不】【过】【白】【岑】【却】【老】【道】，【觉】【得】【平】【淡】【至】【极】。
**【文】【也】【出】【口】【挽】【留】。 【不】【过】，【罗】【惜】【君】【很】【坚】【持】，【一】【定】【要】【回】【去】，【她】【出】【来】【三】【天】，【住】【在】【这】【里】【很】【不】【习】【惯】，【只】【想】【回】【去】【睡】【个】【舒】【服】【觉】。 【叶】【静】【兰】【和】**【文】【都】【没】【有】【办】【法】，【只】【能】【雇】【了】【一】【辆】【马】【车】，【送】【她】【还】【有】【稳】【婆】【一】【道】【离】【开】。 - “【惜】【君】【你】【回】【来】【啦】！【是】【不】【是】【小】【姑】【生】【了】？”【叶】【青】【雨】【看】【见】【她】，【又】【惊】【又】【喜】【地】【问】【道】。 “【嗯】，【昨】【夜】【开】【始】【生】【的】，【早】六合现场直播网【面】【对】【观】【众】【们】【的】【警】【告】，【李】【布】【在】【苦】【笑】【的】【点】【了】【点】【头】【表】【示】【没】【问】【题】【后】，【就】【在】【保】【镖】【的】【拥】【护】【下】，【带】【着】【两】【个】【小】【家】【伙】，【领】【着】【肖】【明】【云】【她】【们】，【缓】【步】【走】【出】【了】【电】【影】【院】。 【走】【出】【了】【电】【影】【院】【之】【后】，【李】【布】【他】【们】【就】【直】【接】【坐】【上】【云】【天】【龙】【的】【接】【送】【车】，【去】【他】【们】【今】【晚】【上】【举】【办】【庆】【功】【宴】【的】【酒】【店】【那】【边】【了】。 【张】【小】【风】，【宜】【小】【心】【他】【们】【这】【些】【人】【在】【囧】【途】【的】【剧】【组】，【并】【没】【有】【跟】【李】【布】【上】【同】【一】【辆】
【亲】【爱】【的】【各】【位】【老】【铁】：【你】【们】【好】，【首】【先】【感】【谢】【你】【们】【陪】【伴】【着】【我】，【也】【感】【谢】【支】【持】【我】【的】【朋】【友】，【家】【人】， 【感】【谢】【茫】【茫】【人】【海】【中】【遇】【见】【了】【最】【好】【的】【你】【们】，【对】【我】【来】【说】【世】【界】【上】【最】【美】【的】【不】【是】【风】【景】，【而】【是】【我】【眼】【中】【的】【你】【们】 【是】【你】【们】【对】【我】【的】【认】【可】，【你】【们】【一】【直】【默】【默】【的】【支】【持】【着】【我】，【是】【我】【一】【直】【写】【下】【去】【的】【动】【力】。 【很】【抱】【歉】，【已】【经】【将】【近】13【天】【没】【更】【新】【章】
【叶】【萌】【简】【直】【是】【太】【有】【口】【福】【了】，【害】【的】【她】【都】【想】【天】【天】【过】【来】【蹭】【饭】。 【媳】【妇】【吃】【了】，【做】【丈】【夫】【的】【自】【然】【不】【甘】【落】【后】，【顾】【名】【辰】【直】【接】【上】【爪】【子】，【结】【果】【冷】【不】【丁】【就】【听】【见】【极】【为】【扫】【兴】【的】【声】【音】”【点】【心】【加】【了】【几】【味】【益】【气】【补】【血】【的】【草】【药】，【你】【确】【定】【要】【吃】？” 【顾】【名】【辰】…… 【默】【默】【而】【不】【甘】【的】【松】【开】【爪】【子】，【顾】【名】【辰】【愤】【恨】【盯】【着】【自】【家】【亲】【的】【不】【能】【在】【亲】【的】【哥】”【哥】，【你】【不】【说】【话】【能】【死】【啊】”
【火】【云】【莲】，“【你】【倒】【是】【对】【他】【有】【信】【心】【啊】，【不】【过】【我】【还】【是】【有】【点】【不】【太】【看】【好】，【这】【个】【小】【子】【从】【修】【炼】【开】【始】【到】【现】【在】【所】【经】【历】【的】【时】【间】【太】【短】【了】，【历】【练】【的】【程】【度】【也】【不】【太】【够】。” 【木】【玉】【莲】，“【我】【倒】【是】【觉】【得】【应】【该】【是】【可】【以】【的】，【其】【实】【我】【们】【也】【能】【算】【是】【江】【舟】【的】【力】【量】，【等】【会】【就】【算】【用】【到】【我】【们】【也】【是】【可】【以】【的】【吧】？” 【火】【云】【莲】，“【我】【的】【天】【小】【木】【你】【在】【想】【什】【么】？【我】【们】【怎】【么】【能】【去】【帮】【忙】【呢】？